Why does closeness arrive and then vanish?
When contact peaks after a scare of losing you, then cools once you are steady again, the pattern is the message. The soft text is real. So is the withdrawal. Both are data.
Stop ranking the last warm moment above the last three weeks. The cycle is the meaning.
What should you do with inconsistent contact?
Name the cycle out loud to yourself before you send another clarifying message. If the week already answered, more text is rarely the missing piece.
If you want a private read of one concrete week — not generic advice — start at kionese.com. Ten minutes. Your words. One next step.